Pegging
Pegging is a sexual practice involving anal penetration with a strap-on dildo. It is most commonly described as a woman penetrating a man’s anus using a strap-on device.
The term became widely known in 2001 after being popularized by sex advice columnist Dan Savage, although the practice itself existed long before the term was created.
Modern discussions about pegging often involve topics such as gender roles, power dynamics, masculinity, and sexual expression.
Terminology
The word “pegging” was created as a modern term to describe strap-on anal sex involving a male receiving partner.
Related terms include:
- Strap-on sex — a broader term for penetrative sex using a strap-on
- Top — the penetrating partner
- Bottom — the receiving partner
Some people prefer broader terms because they feel “pegging” focuses mainly on heterosexual gender roles.
Practice
Pegging usually involves:
- A strap-on harness or strapless dildo
- Anal penetration
- Use of lubricant for comfort and safety
People new to anal penetration may gradually prepare using relaxation techniques or training devices such as butt plugs.
Gender Roles and Psychology
Pegging is often discussed in relation to changing or reversing traditional gender roles.
In many heterosexual contexts:
- The male partner takes a more receptive role
- The female partner takes a more active or dominant role
Some individuals find the experience psychologically exciting because it changes common expectations about dominance, submission, and masculinity.
BDSM and Roleplay
Pegging may also appear within BDSM or roleplay dynamics involving:
- Dominance and submission
- Female-led relationships (FLR)
- Feminization roleplay
In professional BDSM settings, the penetrating partner may sometimes be a dominatrix.
Physical and Emotional Aspects
Some people report physical pleasure from prostate stimulation during anal penetration.
Others describe the appeal as primarily emotional or psychological, including feelings of vulnerability, trust, intimacy, or role reversal.
Experiences and preferences vary significantly between individuals and relationships.